Anonymous asked: Sorry, I was under the impression you were engaged to a girl (I mean I know you are a girl) sorry if you're not a lesbian (and I'm thinking about someone else) but if you are you should refer to her as your fiancee otherwise you're talking about a man!

My fiance is gender-queer, so we face a lot of problems when it comes to pronoun usage thanks to limitations in our language. We are in the process of seeing what works best.